Explaining child disorders


The Value of a Relationship Approach to Autism

In aiding children with developmentallabeled and shuffled away from typical peers.
challenges, we must first realize that thisRather, they should be included as much as
requires a team effort and a strengths basedpossible with typical peers. They may need
approach. It is necessary to not focus onadditional support and accomodations, but how
what the child cannot do but look at what thewill they begin to learn important skills
child can accomplish and build upon this.unless they have frequent and continuous
Parents can enlist the support ofexposure to the world around them. I have
professionals but must realize that it isdeveloped the use of what I term 'real life
they who are the most important persons inrehearsals', where we may set up a particular
the child's life and that furthering thesocial scenario for a child. It may be such a
development of their child is not just thething as being able to make a purchase at the
work of professionals but is a collaborativegrocery store. The therapist and parents
effort from everyone involved with the child.guide and coach the child ahead of time in
It is neccessary that for any interventionshow to go about such an activity and then
to truly be effective and helpful, that theyhave them actually demonstrate it. Social
must be consistent and constant. Thestories and comic strip conversations are
interventions must be the same throughout allvery useful in conveying information as these
domains that the child is present in.It ischildren tend to be visual learners. Social
crucial for us to understand thestories can be simply made booklets that the
environmental responses that children have,child helps to create where a particular task
whether they have developmental concerns oror scenario is outlined with what behaviors
even if they do not. If a teacher, parent, orare expected. The comic strip conversation is
other person has a hostile tone, a poorhelpful in building empathic skills as well
demeanor, a loud voice, etc. All of theseas reflective thinking as we ask the child to
things can be overwhelming to the child anddevelop captions for what different
can provoke a behavioral response. Allindividuals may state and think in various
behavior is purposeful and should be lookedsituations.Lastly, I think it is crucial,
upon as so, even negative behaviors.though it may appear controversial to some,
Behaviors are a way of the child speaking toto state that children with developmental
us about a distressing situation or anconcerns can and will be benefitted from a
apparent need or desire when they may not bepsycho-social and relationship based approach
able to convey this to us verbally. Light,alone. Some have decided to resort to
sound, and other sensory stimuli can alsomedications, and I am placing no blame or
produce distress for a child. We need tocondemnation on those who have made this
create awareness of what in the environmentdecision, however making a suggestion that
may serve as triggers to distress and seek tothere are alternatives and informing of these
modify the environment to make it a morealternatives as well as the hazards of
comfortable and safe place for the child. Wepsycotropic medication usage. First, I will
must also be cautious in how we viewnot argue that medications can 'work' in the
children. If we look at a child displayingsense of subduing behavior. However,
negative behavior as a 'monster' or feel thatstrapping a child to a chair would also work
because a child may be rambunctious at timesin regards to subduing behavior. This would
that we must automatically resort tobe aversive and quite possible illegal. I see
medicating them, then we have taken alittle difference between such an approach
negativistic attitude that will surely beand that of using psychiatric medication. The
passed on to the child. Children are keenlydifference is that one is a physical
aware, even those with communicationrestraint, the other a chemical restraint.
struggles, of adult's perceptions of them. WeWhen we say that something 'works', often we
should look at our children through the eyesare not looking at the mechanism by which it
of delight and address behavioralworks. Dr. Peter R. Breggin, MD compared the
difficulties not in terms of how we canuse of antipsychotic medications in children
subdue, but rather how we can meet needs andto 'chemical lobotomy' as it blunts the
resolve conflict and remove distress.Thefunctions of the frontal lobes. Thr risk of
floor time model is of particular usefulnesstardive dyskinesia, a permanent disfiguring
in working with children with communicationneurological impairment exists with these
and social struggles. For those children whodrugs. In addition, such drugs as Risperdal
are non-verbal, we can begin to introduceare prescribed off label and are not
hand signals, moving to use of pictures, andindicated for anyone below the age of 18 but
then gradually encouraging the child to makecontinue to be prescribed.It may require more
use of words or phrases to indicate desires.diligence, effort, and patience, but I remain
It is not important initially whether theconvinced after working with over 40 children
verbalizations are correct but rather that awith developmental challenges, that
verbal attempt was made. When a childrelationship based approaches, rather than
displays such a behavior as spinning objects,chemical restraint, prove to be a true means
in the floor time model, we would not beto teach our children skills, to focus on
aversive, but rather gently introduce a newtheir strengths, to build on their
toy or object and seek to divert the child todevelopment, and to help address challenging
a more productive activity. In situations ofbehaviors and to address the real source of
echolalia, we can say such things as 'that'sconflict and distress rather than just
TV talk', and provide means to divert this toblunting it.Dan L. Edmunds is a doctoral
a different means of conversing. It iscandidate (abd) in Pastoral Community
important to provide the child withCounseling. He is Board Certified in Sexual
understandable signals and meaningfulAbuse Issues via the American Academy of
statements and phrases when we are desiringExperts in Traumatic Stress. He has served as
them to behave in a different way.In ordera therapist with a diverse population of
for children with developmental concerns tochildren and adolescents including many with
be able to integrate more into the socialdevelopmental challenges. Edmunds serves as
sphere, it is necessary that they not bethe county autism specialist for a private
isolated into situations where they areagency in Northeastern Pennsylvania.



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