Family Advocacy - Part One

Who Was Jean Piaget?Jean Piaget was to(Burton, 1990). There remains a strong
cognitive development as Albert Einstein was tomisconception that mentally ill parents are violent
physics. In fact Einstein was afan of Piaget's work.and are therefore at an increased risk for abusing
Jean Piaget was born in Switzerland on Aug. 9,their children. While this may be true for alcohol
1896. He published his first scientific paper at theand drug abusers, it is not true for parents with
age of 10. By the age of 22 he already had apsychiatric disorders getting treatment.Still, for
doctorate in zoology. He became interested inthese reasons many people are afraid of getting
psychoanalysis after WWII and attended lecturesthe help that they need. They are afraid their
given by Carl Jung. He then studied in Parissymptoms may give the impression that they
working in Alfred Binet's child psychology lab. Itwould be an unfit parent. If they are seen as unfit
was there that he first began to notice thatthey could lose their children. Therefore families
children of the same ages answered true/falsemay not receive the services they need to raise
questions similarly.He returned to Switzerland andhealthy children. Thus a vicious cycle
spent many years studying and conversing withbegins.Warning SignsThe following is a list of
children. He realized through his conversations thatsymptoms that could indicate that children are not
when asked a question a child did not necessarilydealing well with a parent's mental illness. Mind you,
give an incorrect answer just because the answerthese are also signs for other causes such as
wasn't an adult response. They instead gavetrouble in school, peer pressure, sexual problems,
logical answers based on the knowledge that theyabuse, relationship problems, substance abuse, a
had within them. He concluded that if adults try tochange in circumstances at home and a host of
teach children to quickly that it prevents themother issues. Still, I felt they were worth
from reinventing it themselves, thus making itmentioning. If you notice any of these things in
their own.His career spanned nearly 75 years andyour children over a continual period for 3-4
he is credited with developing several new fieldsweeks, please seek help for them. Never turn a
of science including developmental psychology,blind eye and think that the problem will solve
cognitive theory and what later became geneticitself.*moodiness
epistemology. Without him, some of today's*bad temper or irritability
modern methods would have never come about.*crying a lot
Many of his theories are still the basis for modern*sleeping problems
child development including the "Theory of*lying
Knowledge Construction." This theory is based*not talking to people or going out with friends
upon the principle that when a child comes into*eating more or less than usual or skipping meals
contact with a new piece of information, his mind
must understand it in a way that fits his current*giving up hobbies
view of the world. If it doesn't fit the mold then*arguing
the child will re-construct their knowledge so they*feeling lazy, bored or tired
can assimilate the new information. It is much like*stealing or getting into trouble
constructing a building - you cannot start with the*not looking after themselves (hygiene)
top, you must build the foundation first and then*low self-esteem
develop up from the base.Four Stages of*acting recklessly
Cognitive Development in ChildrenLet's take a*drinking alcohol or using drugs
minute to get a feel for Piaget's 4 stages of*skipping school
cognitive development in children. Remember, he*preferring to be aloneHow Children are Affected
spent most of his life studying and interacting with- Risk or Resilience?As seen above in Jean Piaget's
children and I think his theory makes a lot of"Theory of Knowledge Construction," children are
sense.Stage I: Sensorimotor (Infancy)Infants learnonly capable of understanding things if they have
about the world around them through sensationthe knowledge from the preceding level of
and movement. The focus at this stage is ondevelopment. At each level they can be affected
motor and reflex actions. They take a greateither adversely or positively by their interactions
interest in the faces and voices of caretakers.with their parents - regardless if the parent has a
Parents can aid in their development by makingmental illness or not. The challenge here is the
faces, talking and singing to their little ones.Stagecapability of mentally ill parents to provide what is
II: Preoperation (Toddler & Early Childhood)Thisneeded at each stage. (This is where you want to
stage's main focus on the child's intellectualgo back and re-read the section on the 4 stages
development is language and using symbols (e.g.of cognitive development.) It is up to us as
words and pictures). The child will act intuitively atparents to provide them what is needed and as a
this stage. They have active imaginations andmentally ill parent that becomes quite a
vivid fantasies. It is not uncommon for the child tochallenge.Now, research clearly indicates that
personify objects, thus giving toys and dollsparental mental illness increases the risk of the
human like qualities. Parents should take the timechild developing emotional or behavior problems.
to help them learn language and promote their(I'm leaving out genetics here since it is a different
imaginations ,as well as pay attention to how theyissue.) Children with the most serious emotional
play with objects.Stage III: Concretedisturbances, served by systems of care across
Operation(Elementary & Early AdolescenceDuringthe U.S., report high rates of parental mental
this stage children start to process abstractillness, psychiatric hospitalizations and substance
concepts such as numbers and relationships.abuse (Comprehensive Community Mental Health
Before a child could only manipulate thingsServices for Children and their Families Program,
physically. Now they begin to be able toAnnual Report to Congress, 1998). This report
manipulate them mentally as well. To do this theyshows nothing of the relationship between the
need concrete examples or they will notage of a child and their exposure to parental
understand the concept. A child's developmentmental illness. Some feel that if children are
should focus on giving concrete examples ofexposed repeatedly at a young age their risk is
ideas.Stage IV: Formal Operation (Adolescence &higher. However, some studies have failed to find
Early Adulthood)This is the stage where childrenconclusive results regarding age or developmental
begin to reason logically and analytically withoutstages in regards to their level of risk (Oyserman
needing concrete examples as before. Children areet al.; Weissman, 1989).Stressors outside of the
now capable of hypothetical and deductivefamily detrimentally affect children of parents with
reasoning. Encouraging young people to considera mental illness. Stressful issues that increase the
multiple possibilities will help their development atlikelihood of emotional or behavioral problems are
this stage.All of these stages represent areas ofminority status, low levels of education, stigma,
opportunity or risk of failure when it comes tosingle parenthood, social isolation and poverty
helping your child get through the world. This task(Biedel & Turner, 1997; Hammen et al., 1987;
is tough enough for two parents who are normalHarnish et al., 1995; Sameroff & Seifer, 1983).
by societies standards. Throw in a parent whoThese types of issues are difficult at best for a
suffers from a mental illness and you face achild to cope with but when you add in a mentally
much greater challenge. This is the reason Iill parent the problem is simply compounded
started with the 4 stages of development - somassively.The gender of the child also appears to
that parents could see areas that they couldplay a roll in how they react to a parent's illness,
reach out to their children in an appropriate wayalthough there is conflicting evidence in how
and affect them in a positive manner.Someexactly. Some studies show that girls are more
General Statistics~*~Almost 1/3 of Americanadversely affected and some feel that it is boys
women and 1/5 of American men providewho have a worse time coping. Studies have
evidence of psychiatric disorder in the past 12shown, however, that girls are more prone to
months. Of these women, 65% are mothers;develop depression and boys are more likely to
52% are fathers.~*~Women and men withexhibit conduct problems (Cummings & Davies,
mental illness are at least as likely, if not more1994).It is well documented that children with
likely, than those without psychiatric disorder togreater intelligence, better social skills and stronger
become parents.~*~The majority of adults fallingcognitive processes have been shown to be more
into psychiatric diagnostic categories (affectiveresilient to their parental mental illness (Beardslee
disorders,anxiety disorders, PTSD, psychotic& Podorefsky, 1988; Radke-Yarrow & Sherman,
disorders, etc.) are parents.~*~1 in 4 American1990.) Cognitive skills such as a positive and
families are affected by parental mentalcoherent self-concept, a positive attribution style,
illness.Why Parents Don't Seek HelpOne of theeffective coping and problem solving abilities have
biggest reasons that adults don't seek assistancebeen associated with positive outcomes among
for their mental problems is due to the stigmachildren in general and specifically among children
that is still attached to having a mental illness.with depressed mothers (Beardslee &
Unfortunately many people still do not viewPodorefsky, 1988; Downey & Walker, 1989;
mental illnesses as a medical problem but as aRadke-Yarrow et al., 1995)Terry J. Coyier is a
personal flaw or weakness in the person. You still37-year-old college student studying for an
hear the mentally ill referred to as "crazy," "loony,"Associates of Applied Sciences degree. She is also
"nuts," "psycho," or even worse terms.One of thea freelance writer who writes about bipolar
other reasons for not seeking treatment is thatdisorder and other mental illnesses. Terry was
mental illness is the primary reason for custodialdiagnosed with bipolar ten years ago. She lives
challenge. Some studies have reported as manywith her son in the Dallas/Ft. Worth Metroplex.
as 70-80% of parents with a mental illness haveTerry is an author on which is a site for Writers
lost custody of their children due to their illnessand her personal portfolio can be viewed here.