Autism Social Skills - Eating Out

We all love going out to eat...But when your childmenu at home? It may be an idea to actually
is autistic this family treat can become a familybring along some food from home-just incase.o
nightmare.Try and make sure all your children have used
There are various ways to prepare your autisticthe bathroom before you leave, public bathrooms
child for eating out.o You could start by a simplecan be a whole new experience and may cause
role play of the eating out experience...o Maybeanxiety triggers in your autistic child.o To be on
you could show your autistic child a samplethe safe side bring along a social skills story for
menu...Introduce this at your own family mealusing the bathroom while you are out "autism
time..."Isn't this fun...can you choose your dinnersocial stories and going to the bathroom". You
from the menu (add name)o Autism Socialmay want to have already introduced this story
Stories are an excellent tool at this time...Introduceto your child before the meal out - to be on the
your autistic child to the idea of eating out. Bysafe side.o Try and choose a restaurant where
using theses simple but effective social skillsthe service is normally very fast, or try and have
stories, the social skill stories will explain, whata quiet word with your waiter and explain your
happens in a restaurant...what is expected ofchild is autistic and could he please hurry your
them and also what they can expect fromorders and service along.o Remember to always
others.o Have a rehearsal in a small fast foodkeep one eye on your autistic child...he wont think
restaurant or salad bar firsto Try to visit thetwice about helping himself to the kid on the next
restaurant to familiarize your autistic child with thetables burger or fries...Or shouting out. Be aware
establishment first.of the people on the tables near to yours.o If at
A few things you may want to keep in mindall possible ask to be seated in a quiet part of the
before the actual eating out experience are:orestaurant away from others.
Have you prepared your child enough beforeRemember restaurants are full of stimulation,
actually setting the dateo Have you introduced ansmells, noises, sights, lights. You will need to be
appropriate autism social story- explaining what isvery aware of these. But as long as you have
going to happen, and when it is going to happen.oprepared your child by using an appropriate autism
Make sure you have taken the time to check thesocial story, your child should already be aware of
restaurant is the same as when you bought yourthese and you will be able to take appropriate
child along for a visit ...No re-decorating hasactions to avoid certain situations.
happened etc..o Have you practiced with your