Bullying and your child with Aspergers

>government and then hopefully some kind of
An article about bullying and Aspergers children.agenda for change will filter down to teachers,
In March 2007 in the UK moves were made toclassroom assistants, domestic staff and
start putting pressure on Tony Blair and the resteveryone else in the schools. As we all know the
of government to start recognising and helpingmulti-sensory and often very hectic nature of
autistic children in schools who are being bullied. Aschools can be difficult enough for children with
number of parents have outlined that theirautism - so they can really do without having to
children are being bullied and that a lot of the timecontend with the extra "attention" of playground
this is leading to different types of "exclusion" forbullies.
the autistic child. So as well as the trauma andObviously as parents it is important to ensure
upset of being bullied - the chances are that thethat your child has some kind of feedback loop to
autistic child is facing sanctions at the school asa trusted person so that any signs of bullying can
well. Ivan Corea, Chair of the Autism Awarenessbe picked up. Whether this is verbal, through
Campaign who are leading the campaign said:some kind of symbol or PECS board, or more
‘Bullying of autistic children is going on increative like "puppet talk" for youngsters, it needs
primary and secondary schools. This must stop,to be crystal clear for the child what is and what
some schools are punishing the autistic child ratherisn't acceptable - and then what they should do
than the bully. We are asking the Secretary ofabout it. The simpler the better with this approach
State Alan Johnson to keep specific data ofand I guess this is easier for things like physical
incidents of bullying and exclusion of autisticbullying - as the more subtle types of verbal
children and set up a mechanism where parentsbullying can be more difficult to explain. But
and carers of children with autism can registergenerally your child's behaviors will be a key to
incidents of bullying because some autistic childrensomething being not right and then you have the
with communication disorders may not even be,often difficult, task of working out what is
able to tell their teachers about the bullies. Wehappening from there. If you do have the ear of
need real action on this and Lee Scott MP hasyour child's teacher it is worth raising this issue
already highlighted the seriousness of this issue inwith them and finding out what mechanisms they
his debate on autism in parliament.' Lee Scott ishave in place for your child to communicate if
due to meet with Tony Blair later in the year andthey are being bullied. There is a useful "bullying
will discuss the very serious nature of autism andworksheet" that you can use to look at the
bullying then.issues around bullying with your Aspergers child.
Bullying is an awful problem with any child but theYou can find it at
needs of a child on the autistic spectrum makeSo to briefly summarize this article; bullying is
this even worse. The lack of understanding ofsadly something that all parents with a child on the
social cues, difficulties in communicating theautistic spectrum need to think about. This
problems to others, interests and hobbies thatinvolves looking at different ways in which you
often seem a little "goofy" and make the child ancan monitor your child to check if something is
easy "target" - to name but a few. So it is sogoing on so that you can take action.
important that this issue is taken seriously by the