Friendship and Social Skills on the Playground

Parents and teachers play a vital role in teachinglittle girls on the playground.
the skills of friendships and inter-personalFriendship Connections
relationships. Even toddlers can learn to initiate andTo have a friend and to be a friend are basic
sustain friendship and build social skills on theneeds of children and adults alike. We all want to
playground and in the group setting.belong. Young children who learn the skills of
One of the very easiest ways to find out howmaking friends from parents and teachers will also
your child interacts with others is simply to watchexcel in emotional development. Those who learn
them at play. Two year olds like to do parallelto relate to the needs of others in socially
play, or do similar things in the same areas butacceptable ways are usually well liked and included
not necessarily together. Increasingly with age andin playground activities and school projects.
experience, children will learn to interact with otherTeach Empathy and Mutual Respect
children, to share toys and games and to takeFriendship and social skills on the playground are
turns.usually learned in a one on one conversation with
Pre-schoolers are more intentional in makingteacher or parent. The life lesson we want to
friends. They give and take away the title ofimpart is that it is not others responsibility to like
"friend" varying on the activity or their mood. Thisus, it is our responsibility to be the kind of person
can become an early "power play" to see who willand friend that others will be drawn toward and
be the "Queen Bee" and the "Wannabees" of thewant to befriend.