From Children's Stories to Study Skills - Help Your Children Succeed in School

Introductionand Internet-based research onpossible
As a parent who wants the best for yourdestinations, sites of interest, driving or
children, there areundoubtedly many things thatflyingroutes, and how to dress appropriately for
you already do every day tohelp your childrenthe climate ofyour destination spot. If you're
succeed in school. The purpose of thisarticle is tothinking of buying a new car,let your kids take
provide some practical ideas for you to try.part in your consumer research,comparing
Someof these suggestions may be new to you,different car models according to a variety
many will befamiliar, and some are just plainofpertinent criteria.
common sense but,hopefully, they will all serve asNurture good study habits and self-discipline. Set
reminders of the manysimple steps you can takeaside aregular, daily study time for homework in a
that are too often taken forgranted or forgottenquiet, well-litroom. Be sure that your kids have a
about, due to the hectic pace ofeveryday living.study environment that'ssound physically, as well
Read to your kids, whatever their agesas conducive to mentalconcentration. A quiet
First of all, read to your children. We all know thatroom is important, but so too is goodlighting, a
this isimportant, but I'd like to point out thatchair that provides good back support and
reading aloud shouldbegin in infancy. It canaccessto all the materials that your children need
contribute to your baby's developingattention spanto completeprojects. Supply them with pencils,
and receptive language skills. In addition, I'dlike toerasers, rulers, and soforth.
encourage parents to read to growing children,Encourage kids to keep their desk or other study
evenonce they are able to read on their own.area neatand well organized. This will prevent lots
Don't stop once yourkids are in elementary schoolof time-wastingsearches for materials and will
for, whatever the status oftheir reading skills,really pay off as yourchildren get older and their
hearing a good book read aloud is anexperienceschool assignments becomemore complex. Good
apart.organizational skills, which include thearrangement
Being read to allows children to focus more onof physical objects, plus the logical structuringof
thedescriptive passages and the action, ratherthe steps involved in completing any given
than having tostruggle with understanding everyproject, canlast a lifetime.
single word. It alsoallows them to hear greatTake an interest in your kids' day-to-day school
children's stories that are beyondtheir currentlife
reading level, and it's a wonderful way for afamilyTake an interest in your children's school projects.
to share a magical experience. Choose aEncourage them to show you reports they've
children'sbook that can also be enjoyed by you aswritten orpictures they've drawn. Make them see
an adult, and havea family reading session eachthat you care aboutwhat they're doing and about
evening or each week. Aclassic children's story,how they're doing, but don'tmake them feel like
such as "The Wind in the Willows,"or the Harrythey're constantly being monitored orjudged. Don't
Potter books might be perfect for youradd pressure, just give them plenty of
family,depending on the ages and interests ofsupport,encouragement and praise for jobs well
your children.done. Provide themwith the resources they need
Encourage independent reading and library use(such as Internet access,library time, books and
Offer quality children's literature to your growingmagazine articles) to do a good jobon school
children andencourage them to read on their ownassignments, but... resist the temptation to do
- at their own level andat their own pace. Fictiontheschool projects for them.
and nonfiction can both open upnew worlds ofTake the same approach with everyday
knowledge and experience and help preparekidshomework. If yourchild's having trouble with a
for success in school and in adult life, and don'tmath problem, review the rules,explain the
forgetthat online children's stories are an excitingprocedures, and check the results, but don't
new resource toadd to your reading repertoire.justgive a child the answers. The learning process
Take your children to the local public library. Beis moreimportant than a list of correct answers
sure thateach member of the family has his orto hand in to theteacher.
her own library card.Go that extra mile
Help your children see the public library not just asAmong the most precious gifts that you can give
a placeassociated with homework and drudgery,to yourchildren is your time. Put them first and
but rather as anexciting doorway to interestingmake time for them.
information and adventure.Build a happy, stable home environment, full of
Encourage library book borrowing related to anylove andsecurity, and you've already gone a long
specialtopic that interests your kids - fromway towardshelping your children thrive and
astronomy to adventurestories, from fact tosucceed both in school andin life. Be involved in the
fantasy.big and the small events that makeup their daily
Get your kids to participate in some of the speciallives. Offer your support,
free extraactivities and programs that areencouragement,resources and love. Be there for
regularly scheduled inmany public libraries, likethem, no matter how busyyour professional life is
storyhours, craft projects, films,and summeror whatever other commitments youhave.
reading clubs. Take your children tomuseums,Before you know it your children will be grown up
concerts, puppet shows and the like. Exposethemandwhat they'll become depends largely on you.
to any forms of entertainment and culturalFor their sake,as well as for your own, make the
enrichmentthat you may be lucky enough to havemost of their childhood.
access to.There are no pearls of wisdom here, just a
Develop effective research skills and good studyrefresher coursein things that we've all heard a
habitsmillion times, but don'talways stop to take them
Help your kids develop research skills that willto heart. They're so important thatthey deserve
serve themwell, not only on school projects, butour attention, to periodically remind us of
later in daily life as anadult. For instance, if you'rewhatreally counts in life.
planning a family trip, let thekids conduct library