| Development means just that. It’s a | | | | interesting stories. Make certain that they’re |
| process. The learning process we go through to | | | | not too long or they’ll be boring. Be careful |
| gain the skills to talk to women is like any other | | | | to include sense details. Describe things that |
| learning process. It’s full of failure. | | | | relate to the senses in the story. Saying you |
| Don’t worry, failure is part of the learning | | | | walked into the room isn’t nearly as |
| process. In fact, human beings tend to learn | | | | interesting as saying As you walked into the room |
| more from failure than they do from success. | | | | you could smell the steak being cooked. Use |
| The guy who can naturally talk to women | | | | Sound, Taste, Touch, Sight, and Smell to express |
| probably doesn’t understand his skill and | | | | your stories. Include what you may think are |
| therefore can’t utilize it properly. The guy | | | | mundane details. Women love details. |
| who’s failed and learned what works holds | | | | Humor has it’s place but don’t be a total |
| the power to use his skill on any woman he | | | | clown. If you can make a woman laugh |
| wishes to approach. | | | | you’ve already conquered half of her heart. |
| Plan on failing. Count on it. Depend on it. | | | | Laugher is a clear, unconscious message from a |
| Embrace it when it happens but always learn | | | | woman that she’s falling for you. |
| from it. What was the problem? Why did it | | | | You’ve put her at ease, pulled her into your |
| happen? How can it be prevented in the | | | | humorous story, and given her entertainment. |
| future? What would have worked better? | | | | Her laugh is letting you know that you are just |
| There’s no question that women love to | | | | the kind of guy she’s looking for. |
| have conversations. If you’re going to have | | | | Now we come to the most powerful technique. |
| any hope of attracting women you’ll have to | | | | Flattery. |
| learn the language I call feminese. It’s the | | | | Flattery comes in two flavors. Real and False. |
| language, and more importantly the language | | | | False flattery is insincere and will be spotted in a |
| style, of women. | | | | heartbeat. It will brand you as a deceptive |
| Women play with language whereas men see | | | | person and end every chance you might have |
| language as a tool. Consider conversation to be | | | | had immediately. Real flattery, flattery |
| nothing but another form of foreplay. That’s | | | | that’s sincerely expressed is like nitroglycerine |
| exactly what it is for a woman. You’ll find | | | | to a race car’s engine. You’ll go further |
| that women are stirred by talking much more | | | | and faster than you can imagine. |
| quickly than by any physical contact. Be | | | | Just like nitro, though, it can be dangerous if |
| prepared to become an expert at talking with | | | | mishandled. Be sure to flatter her on things that |
| women or be prepared to be lonely. | | | | she chooses. The things she chooses are the |
| Ok, so, how to develop these discussion skills? | | | | things she is. For instance if you compliment her |
| There are so many ways that it won’t be | | | | on the color of her eyes you’re not |
| possible to mention them all so I’ll just share | | | | complimenting her…just something her body |
| a few really good ones. | | | | has. This will show that you’re focused on |
| First impressions count so make sure that | | | | her body and not on her. On the other hand, |
| whatever approach you use to open a | | | | complimenting her choice of clothing or an opinion |
| conversation is interesting. Not interesting to you | | | | she expresses is a clear flattery of her inner |
| but interesting to her. Being cute doesn’t | | | | self. |
| count here. In fact it could kill your relationship | | | | Remember, women are all about connecting |
| before you get started. Just ask yourself what | | | | relating to others. This will create an immediate |
| this woman is probably interested in then open a | | | | bridge between you and she’ll feel like she |
| conversation by talking about that. | | | | relates to you well and will instantly find herself |
| Always be prepared with a couple of very | | | | being attracted to you. |