How to Talk With Young Children - 3 Communication Tools For Parents

As a parent, you may wonder what you can doAgain, this does not involve expecting your child
to help your child learn *how* to speak.to repeat anything. It simply means that you are
Amazingly, most children naturally acquire languageproviding a verbal narrative of what is happening. I
just by daily experiences listening to others speak.would suggest keeping your sentences short for
Parents sometimes try to "jump-start" their child'stoddlers or preschoolers who are speaking in
speech in different ways. Some of these waysphrases, and to using single words or two word
intuitively are helpful; other methods may actuallyphrases for children who are just beginning to
discourage children from attempting to speak.speak with single words. You might think of this
Rather than listing things you should not do, letas narrating an event.
me share with you 3 techniques that I use as aA third tool is to understand, accept, and relish
speech-language pathologist to promote languagethe pronunciation that your child is using during
development. You may recognize that you aretheir speaking attempts. Too often parents
already using these methods intuitively withoutattempt to correct their children's speech, with
realizing it! Let me encourage you to spend somethe effect of discouraging speaking, or turning it
time each day using these communicationinto a control issue. By acknowledging your
techniques with your child.understanding of what your child is saying, and
The first tool available to you is to simplyre-stating the words (as mentioned above), you
acknowledge and repeat what your child is saying,increase the likelihood of your child's desire to
but adding just a bit more information to whatkeep talking. We really want communication
your child said. For example, if your child says "du"between you and your child to be an enjoyable
for "juice", and you know that your child isevent. Developmental pronunciation is how children
requesting more, you can say "want more juice?".learn!
This will provide additional information about howA caveat to the above suggestions: if you have
to pronounce the word "juice", as well as tospecific concerns regarding your child's speech,
demonstrate expanded grammar. In fact, thishearing, or language development, please contact
technique is known as "expansion", and is a helpfulyour child's pediatrician, family physician, or school
concept for parents to understand. (By the way,district in your area. The above information is to
this does not include expectation of your childprovide parents information as to how they can
repeating back your words like a parrot! You aresupport and encourage language growth. It is not
simply providing additional information - with ameant to replace needed assessment and
smile - in the context of a naturally occurringintervention.
event.)I will continue to post articles on child speech and
The second tool you can use is to commentlanguage development in the coming weeks.
about what you are doing, or what your child isPlease check back soon!
doing, while the event or activity is happening.