Is Your Child Learning to Pop Pills Rather Than Develop Skills?

When most parents decide to medicate theiras the child's real teacher. So instead of using
ADD/ADHD child they rarely consider the hiddengood behavioral and communication strategies
message and the underlying psychologicalwith a child in a conflict, a parent might well ask,
implications.'Did you take your pill?' And rather than changing
Thomas Armstrong in his ground-breaking bookthe curriculum to one that's more appropriate for
"The Myth Of The A.D.D. Child" says "There maya child's individual academic needs, a teacher might
be an even deeper message we're sending tobe more likely to attribute a child's problems to
children when we use medication instead ofADD and refer him to a physician for possible
mediation to improve behavior and attention span:medication."
' To be successful - to be an okay person - youOnce the child begins medication and the
need to take a drug.' Studies indicate that childrensymptoms of hyperactivity, poor attention span
taking Ritalin may have a tendency to attributeetc. diminish, parents and teachers assume that
their improved behaviors and academicthe problem is solved. So no effort is made to
performances to the drug and not to their ownwork on underlying learning problems, if they exist.
internal efforts."These problems often fester under the surface
Research into the psychological implications ofand are often only detected once they have
relying on a drug to control hyperactivity foundbecome huge and difficult to resolve.
that the children felt that the pill rather than theirDo you want to teach your child that pills hold the
own efforts were responsible for improvedanswer to all of life's ills? Or would you rather
behavior.equip your child for life by teaching him the
Children actually began to believe that the little pilllife-skills he needs? Skills such as healthy eating
is responsible for them completing thehabits, organizational skills, exam taking skills and
schoolwork, cleaning their rooms and even makinggoal setting skills.
friends.Developing life skills that will help your child to
Conversely they blame their poor behavior, badsucceed is the main aim and purpose of The
grades, breaking the rules and so forth onMake Your ADD Child A Winner Parenting
forgetting to take medication.Program. The program focuses on developing 1
Do you really want your child to grow up feelingskill every fortnight with assignments every week
that he/she has to pop a pill in order to be okay,so that the skills become part of your child's life.
acceptable and even successful.Wouldn't you rather help your child develop skills
Thomas Armstrong goes on further to say "Theinstead of learning to pop pills?
effect of all this is that drugs begin to supplant life