Learning To Understand And Live With ADHD

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Helpful Hints On How To Manage Your Childsparents on how o assist their ADHD afflicted child.
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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) isthem and be better informed abut this so as to
a condition that can afflict children. People sufferingbe effective. It is good to discuss what you read
from ADHD have symptoms such as:with a professional or a local support group as
1) They have a low level of concentration and athere is a lot of mis-information on this subject.
very poor attention span.This is especially from self professed guru's who
2) Their memorizing powers are low and theyprofess magic-cures for your child.
have poor concentration.GOOD COMMUNICATION is very essential
3) The are very impulsive and do things withoutbetween parents, support groups and the school
thinking.teachers. If all three groups care to communicate
4) Their frequent temper tantrums and outburstsand solve particular problems it will be beneficial
are a result of easy frustrationfor the child.
While most children as well as adults face similarADJUSTMENTS IN THE ENVIRONMENT. Children
difficulties during daily routine, those children whowith ADHD do best in a quiet, calm, structured,
suffer from ADHD have a far larger frequency oflow-stimulation environment (e.g. one to one) and
these difficulties. The extent is so acute that theypoorly in chaotic situations (e.g. busy classrooms,
are unable to undertake tasks such as:a) at schoolnoisy, busy homes). As a family you may want
(they are not able to pay attention or finish theirto find ways to reorganise life so that it is less
work in time or they can be disruptive andstressful for all of you. At school the teachers will
destructive in class, may be talking excessively inbe doing the same, and it is best if the two can
the class)b) at home (are not able to finishbe co-ordinated.
chores, are clumsy, get into fights with siblingsCLEAR BEHAVIORAL MANAGEMENT STRATEGY.
and more)c) socially (unable to take turns or waitThese children respond best to very clear
in line, bossy and overbearing, easily frustratedexpectations of behavior, and very clear rewards
leading to temper outbursts and aggression,and punishments - with rewards being more
impulsive, so often in trouble for doing antisocialfrequent than punishments. If you are having
actions e.g. unwise "practical jokes").difficulty in doing this at home you may want to
ADHD is not a disease or illness in the sense thattalk about some strategies with your key worker.
it is caused by germs, by injury, or by a clearlyPARENTAL SUPPORT. Since getting along wit
defined physical malfunction (such as asthma orthese children and bringing them up takes a lot of
diabetes). It is simply the result of parts of thedoing , the parents themselves are likely to get
brain not working at full efficiency.depressed and break up. To avoid marriages to
What is clear is that ADHD does run in familiesbreak up and to maintain harmony, it is advisable
and is at least partially genetic - often a parentfor parents themselves to seek assistance from
has the same symptoms. What is also clear isparent support groups, parent training groups,
that the symptoms, and therefore the problems,respite care, marital counseling, family therapy are
are long term. They are not going to go away orsuch support groups and organizations.
be cured in a short period of time, but are almostMEDICATION. Medication is not a cure, but can be
certainly going to continue through into the teenan invaluable help. Getting it right is important and
years, and probably even into adulthood.so you will need to work closely with your key
HOW IS ADHD MANAGED?worker and doctor. The goal of medication is to
Children suffering from ADHD can get long termreduce the symptoms so as to give the child the
complications which may run into their adulthoodopportunity to learn academic, social, and other life
as well. These complications could be:a) Scoreskills. By itself, however, it is unlikely to solve all
poorly or fail in school because of lack ofthe problems and so cannot be used as an
concentration.b) Are constantly in trouble becauseexcuse to opt out of the above ingredients.
of their impulsive behaviorc) may turn to social illsThere are several types of medication that are
like drugs, crime, drink because of their constantused. The most common are the "stimulants"
failures.(discussed on the next page), but increasingly
All of these, in turn, can lead to long termcommon is the new medication atomoxetine,
complications that affect functioning in adulthood.which seems to work very well with few side
Effective management of ADHD starts at home.effects. Ask your doctor for full information.
Parents have to be very patient and give theirAs health professionals we cannot raise your child
best to their child. The treatment of ADHD isfor you, nor can we solve all your problems as
very long, but it has to be given to the child soyou travel with your child along life's journey.
that he is a better adjusted adult. The goal is toWhat we can do, however, is to assist you in
prevent those long term compliations. Since yougetting unstuck when you get stuck along the
as the parent know your child the best, it is youway. We will try to help you to sort out all of the
who will have to take an active part in theabove points as best you can.
management of his ADHD. An effective ADHDBut, in the end, it is you and your family who
management program should include the followinghave to live with it, and so the more you learn
components:about it, and the more you learn the best ways
COMMITTED PARENTS. These are parents whoto manage it, the better your chances of a good
work wholeheartedly towards the betterment ofoutcome.
the child. There is more than adequate information