Parenting by Leading the ADHD Child

Many parents may not realize that their role as aEvery child needs some rules or boundaries to
parent is to be their child's leader. A leader isfollow. As the leader of the household, you are
defined as somebody who rules, guides or inspiresresponsible for communicating and enforcing those
others. When you stop and think about it, arules. Do not be alarmed when the child tries to
parent strives to do just that. Defining your jobpush the rules. Stay calm and let the child know
description as the leader can help make thethese are the rules of the house, and they need
parenting position a little easier. Many parents areto be adhered to. It is completely normal for a
leaders in their jobs or volunteer groups and arechild to need several reminders about any new
familiar with the requirements of the role. Applyingrules and occasionally some established ones.
those same principles to the parenting role canAs the leader, you will need to inspire the child to
help you teach your child good behaviors andexhibit the good behaviors you are asking for.
social skills.Praise them when they are behaving in a manner
Children with ADHD can benefit from a parentyou approve of. Positive or corrective feedback
who has taken this step in their role as a parent.lets a child know you are paying attention.
ADHD provides some parenting challenges thatDo you want to learn exactly how to eliminate
can be overcome as long as the parent stays inyour child's out-of-control and defiant behavior
their leadership role. The child will need guidance,without using Punishments, Time-Outs, Behavioral
rules and a good example to follow. As thePlans, or Rewards?
parent, that is exactly what you can do.