Social Skills in the Workplace: A Case Study to Help Your Employee with Asperger Syndrome

We again visit the workplace of employer 'Jack'Al! I want him to know when to focus on
and his new employee 'Al' who has Aspergersomething else that needs to be taken care of, or
Syndrome. In this small informal office, Al felteven just have lunch."
discomfort and confusion with ordinary routinesThe Plan: This was a two-step plan:
related to phones, break time and workplace1. Jack worked with Al to clarify and prioritize
jargon. In this next phase of our work together,tasks that could be done over time, and tasks
we designed three customized action plans, whichthat had deadlines that were more pressing. He
helped Al succeed with the more social side ofexplained to Al that it was important and
office responsibilities.encouraged to stop and take breaks on occasions
Jack: "When it comes to the job he was hired tothat threw the usual routine off schedule, such as
do, Al is outstanding. But when people skills arean office staff meeting or a birthday gathering.
required, he flounders. He goes off topic or seems2. Jack and Al collaborated on a set of guiding
confused about what people do in ordinary dailyquestions, which helped to steer Al into another
situations."activity, if necessary. To help him break focus and
Jack decided he would work directly andevaluate, Al set his watch to beep three times a
discreetly with Al, to help him feel less 'centeredday to remind him to review his questions list:o "Is
out' for this personalized training program.there something else I need to tend to right
Co-workers had 'supporting roles' but Jack wasnow?"o "Is something going on that everyone else
the one-to-one trainer and advocate for Al.is a part of?"o "What do I need to do before
We created action plans for these three socialgetting back to my work?"
aspects of office life:Al faithfully relied on his 'guiding questions' once he
1. Telephone Conversation Skillsexperienced how good it felt to fit in with the
2. Flexibility and Feelings of Fitting Innormal office rhythms.
3. Expressions of SpeechGoal #3 Expressions of Speech
Goal #1 Telephone Conversation SkillsOffice life had its own culture and early on Al was
Jack: "Sometimes we have to rely on Al to covergrappling with language that, for him, was a garble
phones for parts of the day when the office isof confusing messages.
short on staff. Al tells me he has had some badJack: "Al is really mystified by phrases we all take
experiences trying to figure out what to say onfor granted here. When we use expressions new
the phone. I can see he is anxious about this."to Al, like 'shift gears' or 'hit the ground running' I
The Plan: Al and Jack created a phone answeringcan see he is baffled. When a co-worker said "I
'script sheet' that gave Al the words and phrasesam fit to be tied," Al did not make the connection
for opening greetings, message taking,that his co-worker was feeling short of patience
transferring calls, general comments about who toand frustrated.
speak to for what, and a few social niceties. TheyThe Plan: Al was encouraged to be honest and
role played privately in Jack's office. Jack asked Alask people to rephrase statements or instructions
to keep his conversations business-like brief. Al'she did not understand. One of Al's strengths was
scripted answer tomemory for information so once he understood
"How are you today?" was "Fine, thank you."he was on board when the expression came up
since Al was sometimes tempted to answer withagain. His co-workers were very kind in helping
enthusiastic details more appropriate for socialhim with work-place vocabulary and Al enjoyed
conversation with friends. If someone's questionthat support. It was thrilling for him to experience
threw him a curve, Al's SOS script was "Pleasethe feeling of belonging in this office, so it got to
hold for someone who can help you." andbe something of a game for Al to find new work
immediately transfer the call to Jack or Jack'srelated figures of speech.
assistant. Al's phone skills grew and on his ownIn Closing:
initiative, he spent time sitting in areas where heThese action plans took time and planning, but
could listen and learn from co-workers fieldingwere successful because Jack saw the long-term
phone calls.value in the commitment required. And Al, who
Goal #2 Flexibility and Feelings of Fitting Inwas painfully aware of his social skill 'deficits' was
Jack: "Al gets fixated on his work. It's a qualityreceptive to the program and delighted with the
that turns into a disadvantage at times. Othergood feelings that come with support and
things come with this job! Time is open ended forprogress.