Talk Your Child Clever

Most parents can hardly wait for their baby tovocabulary, and when we speak or write, of our
say its first word. This usually happens betweenactive vocabulary.
the nine months and a year. From about twoAn important thing to note here is that the child's
years, the child should be able to use simplepassive vocabulary came into being through
phrases, and by three he should be able to useconstant and continual repetition of words,
full sentences. By four, he should be fully able tophrases or structures. Once a word, phrase or
talk, although he may still make grammaticalstructure has been repeated often enough, it also
errors. By five, he should have acquired basicbecomes part of the baby's active vocabulary.
language.This shows that the active vocabulary can only
There is little doubt that language acquisition is onebe improved VIA the passive. Research has
of the key milestones in early childhoodshown that a child who is just beginning to talk
development. Much of a child's future social andmust hear a word about 500 times before it will
intellectual development hinges on this milestone. Abecome part of his active vocabulary. Long
language delay can lead to isolation andbefore that it will already form part of his passive
withdrawal, and to learning difficulties and poorvocabulary. This means that parents should create
academic performance. Recent research hasas many opportunities as possible in which their
revealed a dramatic link between thebaby can hear them talk.
development of spoken language and writtenTHE SECRET OF READING TO YOUR CHILD
language among children, and the importance ofParents should read to their children as often as
language acquisition to basic reading skills.possible. The secret, however, which will lead to
Many parents believe that the term "languageoptimal language development, is to read the
development" implies that the child's acquisition ofSAME stories over and over and over.
language is an automatic process. This, however,In the "good old days" there was not the
is not the case. There is nothing that any humanabundance of storybooks that there is today.
being knows or can do that he has not learned.Parents were compelled - it was also part of the
This is especially true of language acquisition.child-rearing traditions - to tell over and over to
The child begins to learn language from the daytheir children the few stories that they knew, or
he is born. From the very first moment it is theto read over and over to their children the few
parents' responsibility to lay a proper foundationbooks in their possession. They also spent a lot of
that will enable the child to acquire adequatetime teaching their children rhymes and songs. As
language skills. Just like parents must ensure thatI discovered for myself through my own son, this
a child follows a healthy and balanced diet forover and over repetition of the same stories and
optimal physically development, they must takerhymes was extremely beneficial for the
steps to ensure optimal language development.acquisition of language. In fact, I took this tradition
HOW LANGUAGE IS ACQUIREDto the extreme, exposing my son to only ONE
Parents should start talking to their little babybook for nearly two years.
from the day he is born. Some mothers are bySoon after my elder son, Gustav, was born, I
nature quiet and reserved. Others have thebought him a book with the story of Pinocchio.
unfortunate idea that it is foolish to talk to theirThe book was aimed at four-year-olds. Except
babies, knowing that they do not understand. Thefor talking to him continually, I started to read to
mother, who does not talk continually whilehim from this book when he was only two or
feeding, bathing and dressing her baby, is layingthree months old - as often as I could, over and
the foundation for a late talker.over and over. I found this tedious, of course.
The baby learns language in one way only, andGustav, however, loved it, and the results of this
that is by hearing language as the parents talkexperiment made all my efforts worthwhile. Not
and talk to it. The more a parent can talk to aonly did he start talking much sooner than most
child, often repeating the same words, the samechildren do, but when he was just over two
phrases, the same structures over and over, theyears, he could recite nearly all the pages from
sooner the child will learn language.Pinocchio. When turning to a new page, one only
An important thing to note here is that by thehad to read the first word or two on that page
time a baby is about nine months old he should beand he would recite the rest of the page like a
able to understand simple words and commands.parrot. In itself this may seem quite useless, but
He may perhaps also be able to say a few simpleof great importance was that the vocabulary in
words already. Invariably, however, one finds thatthis book soon became part of his everyday
the baby understands much more than he is ablespeech. In terms of language development, he
to say. In fact, this remains so of any personwas soon miles ahead of his age group. In fact, to
throughout his life. One is always able tothis day, his vocabulary and his ability to speak
understand more of any language, even one'swith clarity are quite astounding.
mother tongue, than one is able to use in activeWhen a child is a bit older, one should start
speech. This is even more so of any second orteaching him nursery rhymes. Research has
third languages that a person is able to speak.shown that knowledge of nursery rhymes among
This shows that we have two more or lessthree-year-olds was a significant predictor of later
separate masses of language knowledge, ourprereading skills even after the children's IQ and
PASSIVE knowledge (also called receptivetheir mothers' educational levels were partialed
language) on one hand, and our ACTIVEout.
(expressive language) on the other. When weWhile an apple a day keeps the doctor away,
listen or read, we make use of our passivetalking forever makes your child clever!