How to Deal with Children's Anxiety

Anxiety disorders are extremely problematicyour child to cope.
especially for doting parents who do not wish
their children to have any emotional or physicalYou should do your best to encourage your child
disorders. However, in the unfortunate eventto take part in activities independently, and avoid
where a child suffers from anxiety disorders,overreacting to their physical symptoms as it
what do we do?emphasizes to them that they are "abnormal".
Approximately 5 to 20% of all children sufferWhere you are aware that your child may face
from at least one form of anxiety disorder. Thisnew or challenging situations, describe the situation
refers to an overwhelming sense of fear orto them in detail and if possible conduct
worry that is out of proportion to the individual'svisualization and role playing exercises to help
situation, and often causes an adverse effect onfamiliarize your child and allay fears.
that person's life. Children are just as susceptible,
if not more so, than adults in being diagnosed withIf you are in a single child family, let your child pick
anxiety disorder. Out of the many types ofout a special soft toy companion so that they can
anxiety disorder, children are most likely to sufferbuild confidence without having to worry about
from the following five: separation anxietybeing alone. Establish clear household rules and
disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, socialroutines, and guide your child firmly with just
phobia, panic disorder and specific phobia.punishments and rewards. This will help them
establish a sense of security, and they will know
Although there is insufficient research on medicalwhat to expect.
treatments for children anxiety disorders, current
research suggests that psychotherapeutic andWhilst it may be tempting to hide the nature of
psychopharmacological treatments play a role.anxiety disorders from your child, it pays to
Psychopharmacological treatments involve the useinform your child about their conditions. Do not
of antidepressants, although it has many severekeep them out of the loop regarding big decisions
and harmful side effects. Medication is usuallyor events happening in the family, such as a new
recommended in conjunction with therapy, orjob, or a house moving. Always make an effort
psychosocial treatments.to be honest and objective about any obstacles
or questions that your child has for you, as
It is important to be able to identify if your child isavoiding the topic or skirting the issue will only
suffering from anxiety disorders, and how to gocause your child's fear to increase.
about dealing with it in order to help your child. If
left undiagnosed and untreated, it is highly likely toSometimes, it can be difficult to help your child
develop into other anxiety disorders in adulthood,learn to deal with the root of the problem causing
and these children face the same risks as thosethem anxiety as they are reluctant or afraid of
suffering from depression. If your child has beenspeaking about it. Help your child overcome this
diagnosed with anxiety disorders, as a parent youby proposing alternative means of
have a huge role to play in supporting your childcommunications, such as through a picture, or
emotionally, as well as in providing necessarywriting a short story. You should also be alert to
guidance.any hints of fear that your child shows, as it may
be an indication of what the true cause of the
It is normal for children to experience fears asproblem is. A fear of the dark could in actuality be
they face life and grow up, but some childrena fear of being abandoned or left alone due to
may face greater difficulties coping with theirsome event occurring previously.
fears. If you child constantly feels worried or
frightened beyond what the situation wouldHelping your child deal with his anxiety disorder
indicate, or displays physical symptoms ofcan be a challenging process, but do not feel alone
headaches and muscle tension, you should lookas many families are facing the same problem. If
closer into the issue and not dismiss it out ofyou suspect your child could be suffering from
hand. This could be the critical first step inanxiety disorder, take steps to find out more
identifying that your child has a problem, and thenabout it and seek professional help for your child.
to go on seeking adequate help and support for